hey blog. i am back after 2 weeks. currently on raya holidays from 16 july to 26 july.
such a long holiday that i have haha but then i have spent too much on the daily expenses.
too much outing since 16 july until yesterday.
meeting up with my buddies and chit chat nonstop. watched ant man too. it was awesome. a recommended movie.
went to Damai beach resort for a 2 day 1 night with my church youth and it was fun.
well, as you can see the title today, typical parents. they are referred to my parents.
i believe every family has their own family education style, so does my parents.
but one thing i would like to admit, my parents are over-protective and they are kinda typical.
i also want to admit that i have ever backstabbed my parents, i even judged them behind, like seriously. not joking.
whatever i say, my parents can always against me back, or talk back me which i abhor it a lot and a lot.
i mean like, why can't you listen to your daughter's point of view? why must your daughter listen to yours all the time?
I admit whatever they judge on me, do for me, scold me are for my own good. Nevertheless, sometimes they are over. over the limit.
I could not stand with their judgement and continue to agree with whatever they say.
If i talk back, they will scold me with nonsense and un-logic reasons. Why can't they offer us a chance to say whatever we want?
Family education means scolding and nagging or what? sometimes i am really cannot stand with it.
Especially my mum. She can even scold me just because of i did not arrange the pillows placed on the sofa.
I was like, seriously?! Aren't we sitting on the couch everyday? Why do you need to bother about the arrangements of the pillows?
I could not get her point. She can scold me because of tiny matters. I keep on asking myself, Why do you care? Oh my goodness.
My parents are over the limit. Too protective.
They did not even allow me to drive alone since i have got my driving license for 1 year plus.
They will only keep on saying there are too many cars on the road, my driving skill not good and they don't have confidence and bla bla bla bunch of nonsense reasons.
I just want to drive. Just give me some confidence. I am your daughter. Why can't you offer some confidence to your daughter? have self confident please.
Not like i do not know what to do. Never try never know. Who knows if I can do better?
They also do not allow me to go travel around with my friends. They are afraid i might get bullied or robbed and etc.
This reason is still acceptable but then seriously, let me be independence a bit. I know what should i do once i left my house's doorstep.
I want to grow up, I want to be independence. I do not want to be a dependant girl. I do not want to depends on my parents all the time. I am trying not to.
The reason i want to be dependant is because I do not want my parents to worry me as they have been taking care of me since the moment i was born.
I am kinda admire those family in the foreign country, their family education is much different from the Asians. I m Asian.
Foreign country, they are more to offering private space to their children. Because children are not stupid.
They are smart. Just, we need to offer them some little time for them to go and excavate everything in sight. They have brain. They will think. This is to help them to improve their decision making and problem solving skills.
As a future early childhood educator, I am strongly agree with the family education in the foreign country.
Private space and some free space are needed for the children in the family education.
Do not ever force the children to do something they do not like. That's not a right way of educating the children. It will only caused unwanted psychological disease to the children.
Try to offer some time for the children to solve the problems that happened. Do not be too strict to the children. Don't make them hate you.
Though I hate it when my parents start to nag me, I am still very grateful and thankful that i can be their daughter.
I know they love me that's why they nag and scold me.
I just hope they can be free a bit especially when they are educating me so i won't feel suffocating. I need some breathe.
I love my parents. They can do anything just to cheer me up.
They can buy anything as i like just to ful-fill my wish. Thanks mum and dad.
Without both of you, i won't be here today. May God bless you two always.
I will be your daddy girl forever. I will be your mummy girl forever. Love you two forever <3 <3
