Goodbye, koko :')

hey blog, i am so down in the dump right now. but i feel happy too.

received a sudden news from a dearest friend of mine this morning. he is leaving soon. this sunday. 

sudden decision made by his mum this morning. he is going to further his studies in Miri. 

i have to admit that his mum is really a good mum because his mum puts high hope on him. 

his mum even insisted him to study in the best college or university. that's why until now he hasn't study yet. such a good mummy. 

here i am going to post something about everything between us. i mean whatever we have done.

i can remember a lot of things especially when comes to my besties. i even took down in my diary.

because they are important to me.

let us now turn our clock back to 2010. hehe.

i bet this was the first year we met each other. at tuition. but that doesn't mean we will know each other.

i do not know how did we start our first conversation and ended up become friends.

*sigh*

we were leo club members and we joined a programme at swinburne. i forgot what's the purpose.

nevermind. we were like chit-chatting through phone all day long LOL

now move to 2011. hehe.  i realised he's actually a bookworm .____.

nothing special happened this year. if there is, perhaps i forgot?

just, we promised each other to get straight A in PMR but i failed to fulfill the promise. he did.

congratulations! :D he wanted to get note 1 after pmr results but he didn't. haha.

we talked a lot about the phone which just released on that year.

we also discussed about sejarah project at tuition. haha. we copied each other's answers. XD

it's about MBKS or DBKU, we can choose either one. to be honest, these theme is super easy.

oh ya! he came to my house during pbk seminar right after ITC literature class.

i gave him tiramisu cake. he loved it. hahah. never had this expectation before.

he was actually thinking to leave kuching at the end of the year but ended up didn't due to don't know why. forgot.

life continued.. couldn't really remember what have we chatted about.. haha. didn't get to take down 2011's.

just normal lifestyle. looking forward to 2012.

Samsung galaxy s3, he found that the shape is grotesque. so he didn't want to get that phone.

after he searched the speculations of s3, only then he starts to like it. LOL

everyday chatted about that phone and he's like a kid, waiting for a new toy to release ._.

keep on blahblahblah about the phone. everyday like a kid complain here and there ._.

ended up he got it. like finally, he can keep his mouth shut with that new toy XD

he is a sleeping walker O.O i was shocked. >< but nevermind. none of my business :P

hmmmm.. we even talked about our moral project. he told me he has no idea how to do the moral project.

then i was suggesting him to tie a pile of newspapers and pretend it to be recycled.

he was like, oh ya hor! then i was like, .____. .

during composition examination, our title was meeting a celebrity.

he wrote love story with taylor swift. 1000 plus words o.O well, I love that story. interesting.

i can still remember the story line LOL

hmmmmmm.. what else happened in this year ah? i don't think there is.

okay move on to 2013. SPM year. a tough year for us.

together we spam each other everyday for don't know what is it, i can say they are craps XD

miss leong kept on shooting him that he will not be able to get good result for english.

he's like down in the dump and keep blaming himself : ''why like that? i can do better, right? :| ''

actually i have to thank him for switching his english class to friday although he registered tuesday class due to chinese class on friday.

if he didn't change, i bet we won't be able to meet each other like every week.

life goes on.. craps again.. haha we do chat about craps everyday. hehe.

at the end of may,  we quarrelled so hard until our friendships is ended ._.

i was very upset and sad. i even cried that what have i done? why does our friendship just gone that way?

i prayed that our friendship will come back again and it's really comes back! praise the lord :)

i think i won't be able to forget this incident. it's a scar in my heart although we are still friends.

both of us were so scared with plkn results lol. but luckily we are not selected.

thanks for helping me to check in the midnight!

during pra spm, he almost wakes me up everyday lol. getting tips from friends and share with each other.

life goes on.. craps again.. nothing special happened...

let's move on to this year. hahahah. this year is the most craziest year, i bet. hahaha.

but i m not going to say as i am a little bossy if i keep on saying.

thank you for speaking English with me. sorry if my english is kind of broken sometimes.

thank you for being there for me as a friend when i have problems.

thank you for treating me as your only confidante. not everyone has the chance.

thank you for treating me as your friend all these while although we were not in the same school.

thank you for chatting craps with me for everyday although we don't know what are we talking about.

thank you for sharing piles of knowledges with me even though it's not related to my course.

thank you for being a listener and gives me advices.

thank you for listening to my craps although they are annoying.

thank you for correcting my mistakes no matter they are grammar, my behaviour or what.

thank you for this and that. overall, i just want to say thank you for everything hahaha :P

now, you're growing up. living a new lifestyle out there.

i hope that you will study super duper hard to obtain the scholarship and i know you will.

i hope that you will look after yourselves especially wallet, laptop, powerbank because you are forgetful.

i hope that you will never forget your friends here. Don't forget old friends when you have new one.

i hope that you won't make your parents disappointed as they have prepared so much for you and i know you won't.

i hope that you will be more independent like you said. Be more alert although it's in Sarawak.

We do not know what will be happened. But to stay alert.

Remember that I will always be here for you when you have problems. :)

May god bless you always. Calm yourself down when you are afraid :)

Okay liao, should stop here now. Otherwise you will cry hahahaha.

STUDY HARD YEAHHHH! :D GOOD LUCKK!!! :D KEEP IN TOUCH!! :D

为自己骄傲

下午好! 天气很好。不会太热。温度刚刚好。

看见今天的标题了吗？为自己骄傲？我为什么会为自己骄傲呀？ 

原因很简单。因为我拥有虽然很严肃但却很有成就感的家庭教育！

我不得不承认我的家庭教育比外面家庭的教育来得严肃。真的严肃地折磨人。

我爸妈的家庭教育包括了许多例如头发，餐桌礼仪，储蓄的重要性，电话，探望人家／招待客人的方法，懂得礼尚往来，好好做家务，尊敬别人的隐私等等。

头发 

还记得小时候的我常常与妈妈翻脸因为她不肯我留长发。他就不停地骂我说我留长发不好   

看，还有不剪头发的话，头上的的头发像长一堆草。还有头发遮挡额头等于没有阳光，会倒霉。结果我发脾气不理他。剪头发时整天脸黑脸臭。但现在长大了，我可以留长发了。我不再怨恨了。她需要我剪时我就必定会去。妈妈，谢谢你的提醒。

餐桌礼仪

小时候到现在的我都会用筷子一边指人一边聊天，妈妈就会叫我放下。她说拿筷子指人不好看，很没有礼貌。还有就是不可以用筷子或汤匙敲打碗碟。没礼貌的行为。吃东西时尽量不要弄得到处都是。要保持仪态。吃东西时也要慢条斯理，不可狼吞虎咽。

储蓄的重要性

这是我必须要强调的。妈妈从小就为我们开一个银行户口并栽培我们要存钱，以应付燃眉之急。妈妈的训练，让今天的我早已学会如何储蓄。什么时候该花钱，什么时候却不应该。如果一个奢侈品不会说很重要，就尽量不要买。毕竟现在的东西价格都喊涨，再不存钱的话，将来怎么样过日子？对不对？

电话

妈妈总是看到我低头玩电话，玩信息或一大堆。就开始讲我不要整天握着电话和人家玩信息。会给人家一个印象以为我是妓女一样。在等人家的生意。我知道我喜欢玩电话，但我也要懂得和家人沟通沟通，好好陪伴他们一起玩乐。适可而止地玩电话就好了。

探望人家／招待客人的方法

探望人家时，如果可以，少玩电话还有就是不要讲太多话。因为讲多错多，适可而止就好。尽量少吃少喝，不然给人家说我们是贪吃鬼。除非是他们邀请我们一定要大吃大喝。同样的，客人来我们家时，我们必须陪着他们。不要让他们闲着，人家特地来我们而我们却忽略他们，请问有礼貌吗？如果我们去人家时，人家也这样对待我们，你会怎么样想？ 

懂得礼尚往来

如果你不懂得如何回礼，就尽量少收人家的礼物。因为这是一种情，一定要还的。不可以贪心。特别是跟你无亲无故的人。我们做人一定要懂得礼尚往来。万万不可以贪，否则丢脸的是你自己。做人也不可以那么小器，自私，吝啬，要时时刻刻和别人分享比如食物，开心的事。不然没有人愿意和我们交流。

不可目中无人

一个人读书不管再厉害也好，你的态度却很不好，都没有人会喜欢的。也不可以骄傲，一定要把长辈前辈晚辈放在眼里。时时刻刻都要记得‘尊敬’这个字词。不可看不起别人，因为他们只是不幸运。反而，我们应该感恩。我们也要守望相助。帮助他人。

好好做家务

妈妈常常说做什么东西都要顺手，这样就不必做两次工。做家务也有技巧。比如折／晾／晒衣服，扫地抹地，洗米煮饭等等样样都有各自的技巧。在这些方面，妈妈都很严厉地纠正我该怎么样做，才不会弄得一团糟或不像样。还有别把家里弄得乱七八糟，不然要花时间来整理。很浪费时间。要常常把家里弄得整整齐齐，看的人也会开心及对我们留下一个好印象。

尊敬别人的隐私

当别人告诉你他／她的隐私时，妈妈和爸爸说千万不可以到处去宣扬。这样的话，人家以后有什么事情不敢再告诉你了。人家是相信你才会告诉你。而你却成为了大喇叭，还会有谁敢接近你，告诉所有的一切？不尊敬别人的隐私也会让自己失去朋友的。因为人家不喜欢大喇叭的朋友，整天把别人的隐私宣传出去。

好了。应该只有这些。但还有更多，一时记不起来。我的家庭教育只有两个方式，藤条和嘴巴不停地念。稍微做错一点事，就念个不停，简直唠叨得半死。可是没有他们，就没有今天的我和哥哥！感到很感激可以拥有这么严厉的父母。谢谢你，爸爸妈妈，我爱你们。谢谢你们的教诲，我永不忘记。

读者，也许你们会认为我在自夸，但我不介意。因为这是我应得的。我要把我的骄傲与你们分享。希望你们从中学习并改进自己的态度。说真的，看着你们有些人的态度让我很讨厌，让我认为你们是个没家教的孩子。